If you had a huge throbbing zit on your face (making you feel/look ugly and insecure), would you rather go to a party where no one knows who you are or a party with your friends and acquaintances?
Steph: With my friends/acquaintances. They know what I look like normally so I think they can see past my huge zit.
Ugh, I had one in Big Bear when I went with my friends, it was SO BIG, CYST-LIKE. I spent like an extra 20-30 minutes in the bathroom just trying to either dry it up, pop it, or cover it up. So embarrassing. But of course being a girl, the first thing I did was point it out to my other girl friends, and being good girl friends, their response was, “We can’t even see it! We didn’t even notice!” Ah, I would have done the same thing.
Tramanh: Definitely a party where I don’t know anyone! I feel like if I don’t know them, then they can’t see me LOL. This makes no sense.
Actually here’s what it is. I feel like at that party, I can just float around, talking to people here and there, but not really spending any inordinate amount with anyone. At a party with acquaintances and friends, you have to spend a GOOD AMOUNT of time with the same person(s) having long conversation. Long conversation = LONG TIME TO STARE AT YOUR FACE.
